Cat body language.

✦   Tails & ears

The friendly hello

What does a raised tail mean?

A relaxed tail held upright, sometimes with a little curve at the end, can be a friendly greeting. Look for a relaxed body and ears as well.

What about a flicking tail or ears back?

A rapidly swishing tail or ears held to the side or back can mean a cat is uncomfortable, worried or frustrated. Give them space and let them choose whether to approach.

✦   Eyes & purrs

A little slow blink

Why does my cat slow-blink?

A slow blink in a relaxed setting can be a friendly sign. You can try slowly blinking back without staring, while giving your cat the choice to come closer.

Does purring always mean happiness?

Not always. Cats can also purr when stressed or in pain. Notice the rest of their body and their usual behaviour, and contact your vet if something has changed or worries you.

✦   Space & comfort

When cats need space

Why do cats hide?

A quiet hiding place can help a cat feel secure. Let them come out in their own time. New or more frequent hiding can also be a sign of stress or illness, so ask your vet for advice.

Does showing their tummy mean they want a rub?

Not necessarily! A cat may feel relaxed enough to roll over without wanting their belly touched. Let them set the pace and watch for signs they have had enough.

✦   Ears, eyes & whiskers

Little clues to notice

What are my cat’s ears telling me?

Ears pointing forward can show interest, while ears turned sideways or back can be a sign of unease. Notice their posture too, and give them space if they seem uncomfortable.

Why are their pupils large?

Eyes change with light and can look wide during play, excitement or fear. The surroundings and the rest of their body matter. If an eye suddenly looks different or uncomfortable, ask your vet.

And their whiskers?

Relaxed whiskers may sit softly to the sides; whiskers can move forward when a cat is interested. Treat these as clues, not a diagnosis.

✦   Making biscuits

Those busy little paws

Why does my cat knead?

Kneading is the gentle, repeated pushing of their front paws into a soft surface. Kittens knead while feeding, and some cats continue the habit as adults, often when they are relaxed.

What if their claws are sharp?

Try placing a folded blanket between your lap and your cat, so they can enjoy their cosy moment. If you need help with claw care, ask your vet.

✦   Cheek rubs & greetings

A friendly head rub

Why do cats rub against things?

Cats have scent glands around their face. Rubbing furniture can leave a familiar scent, while rubbing against a trusted person can also be a friendly greeting.

Should I ever be concerned?

Rubbing is usually normal, but if it is new, excessive or your cat seems uncomfortable, contact your vet to check for a possible health problem.

✦   Respecting their space

When they have had enough

Why might a cat hiss?

Hissing can be a warning that a cat feels threatened or uncomfortable. Give them room and somewhere to retreat; don’t punish them. If it is unusual or happens when touched, speak to your vet.

Why might they bite during a fuss?

Some cats enjoy only a short stroke or dislike being touched in certain places. Stop and give them space if they turn away, tense or try to bite. A new change can also be worth checking with your vet.

✦   Curious moments

Chattering and zoomies

Why does my cat chatter at birds?

Some cats make little chattering noises while watching birds. The exact reason isn’t certain; excitement or frustration may play a part. A short toy game can give them a safe outlet.

Why do they suddenly run around?

Occasional bursts of energy, often called zoomies, can be normal. Regular short play sessions can help. If activity changes suddenly or your cat seems distressed, ask your vet.

✦   Companionship & comfort

Reading their habits

How can I tell if my cats are friends?

Cats who choose to sleep touching, groom or rub against each other may have a close bond. They still need their own food, water and quiet places; not every cat wants a companion.

What if my cat grooms too much?

New or excessive licking, bald patches or sore skin may have a medical cause or be linked to stress. Ask your vet to check before assuming it is simply a habit.